Authentic Parenting in a Postmodern Culture
I very nearly didn’t buy this book… but it was so well recommended. The ‘postmodern’ in the title put me off. Just because I didn’t want a “flee the evil culture” book, or… I don’t know… a myriad of thoughts. I don’t think the postmodern trends are a bad thing. Its just a different paradigm. A modern paradigm isn’t any more biblical than a postmodern paradigm.
So I was pleasantly surprised, when I picked up this book. It gave a short postmodern paradigm explanation. Wasn’t afraid to point out the obviously GOOD aspects of this shift in thinking. And gave IDEAS (not a how to 1.2.3.) on how to prepare ourselves and our children for now and later as they are grown.
I figure a parenting book is good when it leaves you longing for a heart more like Christ’s, for a more selfless life and attitude, and a desire to seek God fervently for wisdom regarding your own children.
It has lots of neat ideas for family time that I hadn’t heard before. And the author (Mary E. DeMuth) is so REFRESHINGLY on honest about her own failings and journey.
So there you go. If you would like to read a book that won’t tell you how to do the parenting thing, I highly recommend this one.
Something I am enjoying in our current “church situation” (what is that – I don’t know)
Anyway, I like how we are the body of Christ across church “lines” we participate in many of another church’s activities for kids (since ours is so small that we don’t have much) They bless us. Imagine that. One body, different buildings. A beautiful thing.
So the boys participated in this other church’s Christmas pageant. 🙂 Here are some pics.
This was the one time I saw anything on his face besides pure boredom. He faced away from the director the whole time on his hay bale, and sang the words he knew 🙂 in between trying his hat on different ways.
Keenan takes it all very seriously, sings his little heart out, and makes such a handsome cowboy ( as does Thad, I forgot to mention that, but its not like you need me to see that! 🙂 ) He even took his role as an angel seriously. Though I had a hard time taking him seriously with the little fairy wings and fluffy halo they had him wear. NOW I know why he wanted to take his sword to practice!!
And here are a few REALLY cute shots of the boys afterwards. Handsome little tykes.
I know… moderation…
So I’m leaning over the bathtub, bathing Shand… picture it. nah, don’t. ANYWAY
Bryan is behind me and says “Now that is just a beautiful thing …”
you MIGHT think you know what he’s talking about… you MIGHT. But I think you’d be wrong.
He was referring to my….
SCAB on my lower back from getting a mole removed!!!!
Our theme this week was “joy” – focusing in on the prophets and joy through repentance… no really! 🙂
there was a plan, and then the Spirit changed it mid set… which was beautiful… and led to communion. Totally not the plan, but so God. I love it when the Spirit speaks and I HEAR and FOLLOW!!
- O Come, O Come Emmanuel (v1 and 2)
Prayer / Intro to Advent/ J.T. (Renee/Bryan)
Advent Candle – Joy (Morris Family)
Isaiah 11:1-9 – Jesse Tree – Renee
Micah 5:2-5 – Bethlehem – Kimberley
Isaiah 9:2-7 – Light – Phil
o O Little Town of Bethlehem (V1, ch, 3, 4, ch)
- Emmanuel (using as a chorus between Bethlehem verses)
- Here I Am to Worship (no bridge)
- The Gift of Promise
Teaching – sermonette from MJ on next 2 prophets
- Habbakuk Habbakuk 2:1, 3:16-19
- Elijah I Kings 18: 17-39
(continue playing music)
Matthew 3: 1-6 John the Baptist (Bryan)
Closing Prayer – I know – it seems a bit early… it just worked… kind of. J
in real life and on the net… God’s family is good. GOD is good!!
And what do you know… life is better!! (imagine that!)
we had a neat time of prayer tonight… spent some time “releasing” – as in releasing our garbage and such to Jesus, and worshiping, and moved into intercession for our home churches and Souljourn, and then leadership in our church.
We sang more after that… I didn’t know if we were done, by “I” didn’t have anything more… but I didn’t feel certain that we had accomplished what God had for us. We had specifically asked God to pray His heart and sense His burdens… and I wasn’t sure we were done. then one of the guys shared a vision (he had forgotten – he had fallen asleep afterwards before he shared:) – it is finals week after all!)
SO we then prayed for fallen leadership. I believe we were lifting up specifically a “fallen” leader here in Anchorage, though I have no idea who… but what an honor. To pray what God lays on your heart… praying into visions He shows… we can’t do that without God giving a vision to someone, and that one sharing it, and the rest being available to hear and pray. When we were done with that, I sensed a definite completion of “our” task for the evening. I pray we continue praying and seeking His heart… not only on Thursdays!!
we have them. all of us, right? this is my third in a row. I hate bad days. I’m a grumpy mom. a livid dog owner. a messy housekeeper, if you can even call me one. I’m tired. Did I mention grumpy?
I hate bad days.
This is the day that the Lord hath made. I will be …. glad… and rejoice … in it.
I’ll try. But for now I’m going to bed. I’ll try again tomorrow.
Here is our service run-up for tonight. It went well, with even a spot of spontaneous stuff…
Prayer / Intro to Advent (MJ)
Advent Candle (Quick Family)
- The Gift of Promise
- Son of God
Passover (music continues)
Communion (MJ) (music continues)
10 Commandments (Alexis & Keenan) transition
Joshua and Battle of Jericho (kids) SONG
- Awesome God
- Awesome is the Lord Most High (ch in G, Ps, v1 C)
Psalm 100 – continue Awesome is the Lord Most High
Video (God’s army of inadequate/ imperfect people)
Ruth (Heather) (piano plays)
- He Knows My Name (Heather starts)
Katie shares about her upcoming 2 yr commitment with YWAM
Samuel / David (David)
- (Humble Thyself) Majesty
- We Fall Down
- The Gift of Promise (ch first)